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The Verdict: Applicant #1 is a major HELL NAWL. I knew it when I typed it from the last post that’s what the verdict was gonna be!

So, BOOM! 💥 

Time I went to publish my last blog, my phone 📱 rang,… It was him. So, he’s talking to me, & mind you, I noticed he’s tryna have a “phone voice”. Sir,… BYE. So, anyway,…

He’s asking me what I do, who I am, my zodiac, yada yada,… He tells me he’s an Aries. I was like, lawwwwwdddd,… 🤣😩 I already knew this was gonna be short-lived. So, anyway, we continue the conversation. Turns out he was a past business-owner, but, it tanked & he’s been working ever since to recuperate. WHAT BLEW ME WAS he said, “When you’re used to a certain amount of money, it’s hard to work a 9-5. So, I decided to just do Uber” & he goes into this spiel about car-problems & etc. MIND YOU, we are not in our damned 20’s! & He’s WAY OUTTA 30’s! So, what you’re telling me is that you ain’t want no stable health-insurance WHILE side-hustling & LET’S SAY Uber DOES offer that, you ain’t wanted a double-income while meeting your goals?!

Now, let’s ground ourselves: I’ve “heard” of people clearing $90k on Uber, but, I think those are only CERTAIN CASES. Most normal people are NOT CLEARING THAT. And, A LOT of those rideshare companies DO OFFER BENEFITS after a while, but, ABSOLUTELY NOT at this time in your life! If you are going to drive, it definitely needs to be a skilled-type of driving & that’s what he’s working towards & while impressive, when your business was a driving business, why wasn’t that done at that time?!

I am not talking from the experience of a very young woman. I am talking from the experience of someone who has experienced (not to be confused with “slept with”) many different men of different walks of life. This is a bit much. The first thing I want to talk about is, unless it’s something business or art-related (entertainment industry), most normal people have figured-out what gets them going & motivates them. I don’t see that with him, as much, & that was not gelling with me at all. At this point, if I want to create art 🖼️, I will, but, you use your young years to solidify what’s FOR SURE for YOU & your way to make a band. A foundation, you might say. Does that mean that’s everyone’s path? No. Should it be? NOPE. But, should you be at this age & unmotivated & not working through your rut?!

Hell. NAWL.

What blew me THEE MOST was that the motivation, the true fire 🔥 & passion, was NOT THERE. That’s MAY BE WHY I choose passionate men for myself: I love passion, inspiration, & motivation. I talked to him & felt so sad. It can definitely be a friendship, but, nothing more than that. That’s definitely not relationship seeds that needs planting. He needs a devotional, prayer, & a therapist. I definitely didn’t see it flourishing.

Anywho, I’m going to talk to listen, but, it’s time to keep looking. 👀 Definitely,… 🤣

Until then,…

Love 💕, 

Sapph